Oh my GOD yesterday.

So Francesca's visiting me for a few days, and yesterday we both worked from home in the morning, and then in the afternoon we thought we'd take Indy and Goldie to lunch and to the candy store and then swing by TJMaxx on the way back to my place. We were a little "eehhhhh" about the idea of shopping with two kids, but figured, hey, they have a toy section; we can stop there first and get something for each of my children to play with while we browse sweaters for half an hour or so.

Nope.

Q. Jordan,

My husband and I have been married a year now, own a house, have a dog and a cat. I'm approaching 30 next summer. Our lives are primed for a child, but we've both been a bit ambivalent about deciding to go for it because everything in life is so good and peaceful right now. Maybe we're subconsciously thinking "if it ain't broke, don't fix it."

There have been times in the past when I've been super baby hungry, but always when I knew I was nowhere near ready in terms of lifestyle. I know I want a child or two eventually, just not sure I want to start right now. But of course, there's the whole biological clock thing ticking away....