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wise woman once said fuck this shit and lived happily ever after embroidery

{ Wise Woman Embroidery Kit }

Everyone needs a hobby. And specifically, everyone needs a hobby that they can do while half-listening to E! or Bravo! or other channels with virtually no educational, redemptive, or illustrative elements whatsoever, in order to make themselves feel less guilty for spending entire hours (or, okay, perhaps months) deep in the throes of the wonder of the world that is Bachelor in Paradise. 

If you craft while Bachelor-ing, you can find ways to feel good about your morally bankrupt, reality TV-watching self. I speak from experience.

Entertaining

The First Friendsgiving

Jordan Reid and friends by her pool at home in San Jose

Oh my GOD that was a fun Thanksgiving. Technically a "friendsgiving," I suppose, although Pinterest has made me so tired of that word that I cringe even writing it. We couldn't go to Ohio or New York for a variety of reasons, so a few of our East Coast-transplant friends decided to drive up for LA for a full weekend of celebrating. (They only stayed through Friday, but then the whole group of us ended up driving back down to Southern California to celebrate Thanksgiving Take 2 with my parents, who were stopping through on their way back to New York, so we kept the party going. Right now I'm sitting at the kitchen table in my dad's apartment in Pasadena while my kids eat Einstein's bagels on the couch. It's nice.)

The thing about this particular group of friends - Kendrick, myself, Paige, Francesca, and Francesca's brother Mookie - is that we've all known each other for so long that there is virtually nothing that any of us could do that would come as a shock to the others. We've seen each other through some of our very hardest (and wildest) years, so I could probably wander through the house naked wearing a frog on my head, and no one would think that was especially out of character (it wouldn't be, except I'd much prefer, say, a kitten to a frog if we're talking animals being worn on one's head).

So, for example, when Francesca decided that we needed to have a 1970s Keith Richards-esque dress code for the day (mostly because she had just bought sparkly silver bellbottoms and wanted an excuse to wear them)? We were all on board that boat in about two seconds flat. Full-on dance party to Bohemian Rhapsody? You better believe it. And when, for no apparent reason at all, I decided that doing the limbo sounded like a good idea and came out holding the long stick that has inexplicably been sitting in the corner of our garage ever since we moved in, just waiting for a perfect Limbo Moment?

Entertaining

Vintage Holiday

Retro Vintage Charm bowls inspired by Pyrex patterns from the 1950s and 1960s

Over the Thanksgiving weekend, we're hosting a whole bunch of friends for a whole bunch of meals, which takes a little forethought. I don't want to be standing in front of a stove making heavy meal after heavy meal, so what I decided to do for tonight's dinner was pull a little inspiration from the warmer months. You know how during the summer it’s so easy to feed guests, because you can just whip up a bunch of salads, throw them in bowls on a buffet table, and call it a day? I did sort of a wintry twist on that idea, with heartier versions of the pasta salads and potato salads I like to make when it’s hot out.

For décor, I think a retro vibe is always fun when you’re hosting friends – and is a nice alternative to the fussier setups we so often see during the holiday season. I’ve always been a big antique/flea market/thrift shop comber, and one of the things I always keep my eye out for are serving bowls from the ‘50s. My grandmother had a bunch of the Pyrex ones – I’m sure yours did, too – and I love them; the retro flowers, the faded pastel colors, the mod stripes and spots, all of it. I have this picture in my head of my kids, years from now, “borrowing” (a.k.a. “taking and never returning”) my serving bowls to use in their own homes because they remind them of their childhood.

Here’s a little surprise, though: the bowls you see here aren’t actually antiques at all; they’re brand-new pieces created by Vintage Charm™ Inspired by Pyrex® to evoke the old Pyrex opal glass bowls from the ‘50s and ‘60s. I seriously cannot believe the degree to which they got the look of these things right, down to the colors and patterns and even the weight. (And FYI, if you’re looking for a fun gift, the sets of three also come in the cutest little hatbox-inspired containers.)

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Links & Love & Stuff

Jordan Reid's children hugging

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glam | camp Candle | Ramshackle Glam Book

 "For every woman we help create a strong business, we vote for ourselves. We tell other women and the little girls who look up to them that we support each other." Cosign so hard. Click here to read a profile on glam | camp - including an interview on how we started, what we believe in, and the truth about the (many) challenges that come along with trying to break into e-commerce (via Fashion Style Beauty).

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Gift List

Dylan's Candy Bar Christmas candy tin can from Neiman Marcus

Adrienne Landau Hat | Dylan's Candy Bar Christmas Paint Can

It's tiiiiiiiime.

I am doing literally (and I do mean literally) all of my shopping right here on my couch this year, because despite the fact that I no longer have to brave icy roads and navigate my way through ten-thousand degree stores while wearing marshmallow-shaped coats, I have two children who enter stores and...well...do this.

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Behind The (Blogging) Curtain

A silver cup of pink, red and yellow flowers on a white background

Photographing holiday cocktails...on my bed. Of course.

(Recipe coming soon!)

Whenever I see bloggers post their beautifully framed shots of food or their jeans arranged just-so against white bedsheets on Instagram or wherever, I like to imagine what the scene *really* looked like when they were shooting it. Especially the food shots, because you know that they're literally standing up on a chair in a restaurant to get that perfect top-down angle - but really: it's interesting to imagine pulling back on just about any photo.

Lifestyle

The Furry Family

Jordan Reid with her two pet dogs

Everlane Turtleneck | Free People Jeans

I write a lot about how annoying my dogs are. There’s even an entire chapter in my second book dedicated to this subject.

They are. They're totally annoying. After experiencing the mailman coming to the door approximately 20,000 times over the course of his life, Virgil still does not believe that he is not trying to kill him. And Lucy licks my toes. Not in an aw-that-tickles way; in an obsessive way.

Anxiety

Photos Of Flowers (And Being Gentle With Yourself)

Oversized pom pom Smile hat for toddlers from the Gap

Grey Knit Hat (for women) | Smile Hat (for kids)

I was playing around with lighting and props for a shoot I have coming up, and took these test photos, and...I don't know, I just thought they came out well, so I wanted to show them to you. Sometimes it's nice to just look at a pretty photograph of flowers and pom poms.

On my drive down to LA, I started listening to a podcast - Elizabeth Gilbert's Magic Lessons, in which she discusses the process of exploring (and hopefully unleashing) your creativity. (I'm aware that this does not appear to have anything at all to do with the aforementioned flowers and hats, but bear with me, because I do have a point here.)