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Here's a funny little byproduct of this site: when I write about something that falls on the "heavy" side of the spectrum (like, ohhhh, say, this), it's always strange trying to figure out how to transition back into more "normal" topics. Today, for example, the plan was to do an outfit post, because I haven't done one in forever, but I'm not sure how to go about that; typing up tips on how to wear a 3/4-sleeve jacket in the winter isn't something I feel like doing at the moment.
So I'm going to tell you about my socks instead. But first I'm going to tell you how I'm feeling, because it seems like at least a brief update is warranted.
I Had A Miscarriage Yesterday
Just after my pregnancy was confirmed by a blood test.
If you follow me on Instagram, this is the photo you saw yesterday. But I wasn't sitting in a bath with a cocktail; I was sitting in a hospital bed, having a miscarriage from a pregnancy that I hadn't known was happening.
Links & Love & Stuff
glam | camp tee; sherpa blanket
Thanks to Samantha Bee, The Handmaid's Tale on Hulu, and the Richard Simmons podcast I have officially turned into the kind of person who wanders around all day with headphones on (a.k.a. a teenager). (The fact that they're rose gold makes me feel like that's okay.)
Just bought a pair of these off of TheRealReal and I'm not entirely sure this was a good idea. They're really small. And blue.
You Didn’t Know You Needed A Butter Crock…But You Do
Today in completely random discoveries that I am now uncertain how I ever lived without: the butter crock.
Does a butter crock deserve its very own post?
It does.
Me In NYC
Hey just bathroom selfie-ing at The Smith
Last night I was packing up to fly back home (and was upgraded AGAIN on the way back, btw, which either means that I am a freaking genius capable of hacking the algorithm, on the receiving end of some bizarrely coincidental good karma, or Beyonce), when I realized that I haven't really explained what I was doing in New York.
One Year Later: Still Angry, Still There
A year ago today, when we marched in Los Angeles, the size of the crowd floored me: thousands and thousands more people than were expected showed up, and the march spilled out into what felt like the entire city. As exciting as it was, I remember thinking that it - meaning all that energy and rage - wouldn't last. We'd promise ourselves not to start feeling like this presidency was normal...but then, inevitably, "normal" would become exactly how it'd feel.
This year we decided to stay put and march in San Jose alongside our neighbors. I expected to see a few hundred people; maybe a thousand.
The march spilled out into what felt like the entire city. Nobody went anywhere, and they certainly didn't shrug their shoulders and go back to their couches. I think the part that really got me - beyond the man holding a sign saying that he was there for his granddaughters - was just how many kids there were. I am so excited to see what all those children marching alongside their parents, in strollers and on shoulders, hoisting signs that they'd clearly made themselves, will grow up to do one day. I'm pretty sure they're going to be the ones saving us.
The Unacceptable Luggage Situation
This is not me, obviously, but given the sweatshirt-and-no-pants vibe, it totally could be.
My luggage situation, I think we can all agree, is completely unacceptable. I'm not even talking about the "not arriving at the desired location, ever" part; at the moment I'm specifically referring to the physical luggage itself.
Which is terrible.
I Followed A Flight Attendant’s Tips On How To Get A Free Upgrade…And They Worked
Now that's how you dress for a flight.
In the past few days, a few posts have popped up on my newsfeed with “insider tips” from flight attendants; namely, tips on how to be the kind of passenger who gets upgraded. And because today marked the first time I have traveled sans children in a good long while - and you know nobody with kids is going anywhere except the very back of the plane - I figured what better time to do a little experiment and see if I could score myself a few hours of free food and extra recline?
Caveat: I am a Delta Skymiles member, so I have to assume that factors into upgrade decisions. But I’m only a Silver - which really isn’t that big a deal - and I’ve never been upgraded before, so frequent flier status, in this case, doesn’t feel like a game-changer to me.
That Time I Had A Personal Shopper For A Second
The #twinsies thing happening here was my fault.
Me: Faux Fur Slides | Sunglasses | Cashmere Turtleneck | Amazing Travel Mug
F: Floral Embroidered Denim Jacket | Sneakers | Sunglasses
Francesca came to visit for the weekend, and our plan for what to do was pretty exhausting and intense. Here goes:









